About Emily Berner, MFT

Emily Berner, LMFT (MFT81533) specializes in helping parents of anxious children and is in the first international cohort to receive certification in SPACE treatment (Supportive Parenting of Anxious Childhood Emotions) through the Yale Child Study Center. After more than a decade specializing in pediatric anxiety, OCD, and related disorders, Emily came to see that children and adolescents get well and stay well within a supportive family context, which often means making changes at the parent level. She is passionate about empowering parents to create the circumstances needed to help children navigate anxiety, while staying connected with their own core values. Emily brings her core values of compassion, collaboration, flexibility, and humor to her work with parents. An Oakland native, Emily completed her undergraduate degree at the University of California, Santa Barbara, and attended graduate school at the University of Hawaii and California State University East Bay. After receiving her master’s degree in counseling psychology in 2011, Emily trained in evidence-based treatments at the Santa Rosa Center for Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and at the Cognitive Behavioral Therapy & Mindfulness Center in San Ramon. She became a partner at the San Francisco Bay Area Center for Cognitive Therapy in 2016. Emily has extensive experience treating a wide variety of problems in children, adolescents, and adults including OCD, depression, perfectionism, social anxiety, separation anxiety, generalized anxiety, panic disorder, agoraphobia, specific phobias, and struggles with intense emotions and behaviors. She draws on many evidence-based therapies including cognitive behavioral therapy, acceptance and commitment therapy, mindfulness, dialectical behavioral therapy, behavioral activation, and behavior modification. She takes pride in offering empirically-supported treatments and she understands that any successful therapy first requires a strong interpersonal connection and a good working relationship. Aside from her clinical practice, Emily enjoys presenting at national conferences on topics related to pediatric OCD and parenting anxious children. She stays current on treatment advances and remains an active member of her professional community. At home, Emily is a grateful mom to a toddler, loves camping in her family’s 1995 Toyota HiAce, and is an avid yoga practitioner.
2 07, 2023

To Help Anxious Children, Look to Evolution

By |2023-07-02T00:12:41-07:00July 2nd, 2023|From OCD to Anxiety, Kid Korner, Mood Matters, Partner Perspectives|

Did you know that anxiety disorders and OCD work differently in children than in adults? This may seem intuitively obvious but is not reflected in most treatments for child anxiety and OCD. Current treatment protocols conceptualize anxiety disorders and OCD as the result of an overactive threat detection system. This understanding falls short when we […]

12 07, 2021

A Different Kind of Parent Group: Getting SPACE, Together

By |2021-07-12T21:26:44-07:00July 12th, 2021|From OCD to Anxiety, Mood Matters, Teen Topics|

We all had our fair share of struggle this past year-plus. But it’s hard to argue that parents of young children had it particularly rough. Workloads doubled, tripled, or quadrupled overnight for parents who suddenly found themselves not “just” parenting and working their regular jobs, but now also acting as stand-in teachers and childcare providers. […]

30 09, 2017

Addressing Family Accommodation in the Treatment of Pediatric Anxiety and OCD

By |2020-11-10T19:10:15-08:00September 30th, 2017|From OCD to Anxiety, Partner Perspectives|

As a clinician specializing in the treatment of pediatric anxiety and OCD, I am very fortunate to have access to so many effective interventions designed to treat the children suffering from these disorders. However, as anyone who works with this population knows, addressing the child’s symptoms is only half the battle.

5 12, 2016

Doing it Backwards: Why Addressing Misbehavior Starts with Positive Reinforcement, Not Punishment

By |2020-11-10T19:10:16-08:00December 5th, 2016|Kid Korner|

Part 1 in a series on effectively managing challenging behavior in children

Most children have their fair share of behavioral challenges, but for some, these can be especially intense, leaving the whole family exasperated. Difficult behaviors like backtalk, incessant arguing, attention-seeking, lying, and even swearing, hitting, and outright defiance can be incredibly stressful for […]